Letter from Toni Carroll, mother to Yaneiv. I think I need you to know Yaneiv before his deterioration began after surgery so you can fully understand how drastic it was. Yaneiv was a people person, loved helping with anything however big or small, fantastic friends still together from pre-school days, hard working, loyal, always the joker & had a love of life like nothing I’ve ever known & football, playing it & watching it was his biggest love, strict diet & work outs twice a day. Yaneiv Oz - PDF file
He always said as a teenager that he felt he didn’t feel much of an air flow through one nostril but not insistent about it. When he was 20 whilst doing his compulsory army service he told me the Dr had referred him to Haddasah Hospital to have a small operation, a Polypectomy (1) in his nose which I tried to talk him out of but not because of ENS which we knew nothing about, just because I always believed when somethings surgically touched something else messes up. Yaneiv was adamant that it was nothing & I didn’t understand how uncomfortable it felt bla bla bla... He had the Polypectomy & Rhinoplasty đ€Šđ»♀️ I only knew this a couple of months ago when my oldest son told me.
The day after the operation I went to visit Yaneiv & instantly felt something wasn’t right (gut feeling đ€·đœ♀️) But brushed it aside as recuperating. Anyway Yaneiv seemed O.K for a while, held down a job, still working out, football matches, signing up for courses of all types (He loved to study all subjects till he found what finally drew him in).
He had dreams, I think around 2 years after surgery started slight aggressiveness, headaches & insomnia ….. He booked a flight to Australia alone, worked at a company with an Israeli guy he met for a year to save money to travel on before returning home. He lived the dream đ Cambodia, Bali, Thailand & partied in Europe …. I was so proud. He was traveling for just over a year & a half.
But It wasn’t the same Yaneiv that returned đ©
He was still playing football at this point & the gym daily but he couldn’t hold down a job because of constant throat infections, migraines, back & forth to Dr’s more tests, more steroids & referrals to Psychiatric help as they told him over & over it was all in his head.
Yaneiv still had a bit of fight left in him at this point & moved South thinking the humidity would help staying at his Dads. He went to a Psycologist but only once, he tried acupuncture, voice therapy as he though his voice had changed but I think he felt that way because he had to strain so hard to speak, he was awake all night from suffocation & anxiety which left him groggy & catching an hour here & there when he could.
Everytime we asked what he felt he only said over & over ‘my throat’ đ€·đœ♀️. My daughter had a little boy of 4 in her class at kindergarten that kept clearing his throat (Just like Yaneiv) & she offered him water, he brushed it away & told her it wouldn’t help because it feels like a piece of dry steak constantly stuck at the back of my throat. This little boy who’d had the same operation explained it better than my 26 year old son.
The depression started kicking in, he stopped replying to his best friends messages, he couldn’t play football anymore because of choking, he became sensitive to dairy products & soooooo very tired. I know he joined the Facebook ENS group 5 days before his death, he had contact with one member who I think she helped him finally to get an appointment with an ENS specialist in Israel.
He hung himself the day of the appointment
His last wish was that we take the surgeon to court & get justice to stop this. My stepsons Mums a lawyer who said she’d take it on, got all the medical documents together but she didn’t follow it through ☹️..... I wouldn’t be able to do it as Yaneiv said so little, refused for me to talk to the surgeon etc. So anyway if I can help to stop this I will try because I owe it to Yaneiv
I really hope it’s ok Pia
My mind is still trying to come to terms with this, so my concentration is appalling đ€Šđ»♀️
Think it’s fantastic what you’re doing xx Best of luck
(1) A polypectomy is a surgical procedure to remove polyps, which are abnormal tissue growths. It is often performed endoscopically in the nose to alleviate symptoms like nasal obstruction and sinus issues
Summary of Yaniv Oz's Case:
Name: Yaniv (Yaneiv) Oz
Gender: Male
Year of Birth: 23/7 - 1992
Year of Death: 16/10 - 2018
Age at Death: 26
Country: Israel
Medical Background:
Yaniv experienced partial airflow obstruction in one nostril as a teenager but managed it well. At 20, during his mandatory military service, he underwent a polypectomy and rhinoplasty at Haddasah Hospital. The surgery involved turbinate reduction, but he was not informed of the potential consequences.
Postoperative Symptoms:
Symptoms began to surface gradually, two years after the surgery, including aggressiveness, headaches, and insomnia. Over time, he developed insomnia, throat and vocal issues, dry nose, and frequent ENT infections. His mental health deteriorated, leading to depression and isolation from friends and activities he once enjoyed, like football.
Treatments:
He consulted multiple doctors, underwent various tests, and was prescribed steroids and psychiatric referrals, but his suffering remained unexplained. He attempted alternative therapies, including acupuncture and voice therapy, without success.
Final Days:
Yaniv joined a Facebook group for Empty Nose Syndrome (ENS) just five days before his death, which he attributed to severe psychological distress. He died by hanging, leaving a farewell letter expressing his wish for his family to pursue legal action against the surgeon to seek justice and prevent similar outcomes for others.
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